Feels weird writing about dating. It’s a topic where everyone loves to talk and few people have anything useful to say. But I had an unusually high number of long term relationships into my twenties (in parallel, because poly), most of them pretty wonderful in different ways, and as a result I feel like slightly confident spewing my takes on the internet.
I think the applicability of those takes is quite limited, because I’m a weird person (low extraversion, high openness, low agreeability, high neuroticism, queer but in a “I’m 30% the type of straight guy disliked by the most typical queer person” way) with unusual dating filters. I feel like what I have to say is most useful to young women with male-typical autism. Everyone else, I’m not sure what you’re getting out of reading this.